Greetings

"Good things happen when you meet strangers"

 - Yo Yo Ma

I come from a family of phenomenal greeters. As a child I remember my parents often smiling at passersby in public places. My siblings, cousins, aunts and uncles, and grandparents are experts are making new friends feel welcome. This point of pride is just one of the many reasons I feel like I won a lottery in this life.

Thus, its become an important part of my daily practice. I try my best to greet or acknowledge the others I meet on my path, no matter where it might be. Admittedly, this doesn't always make me the best one-on-one conversationalist. And at times I've had angry people try to pick fights with me over making eye contact. But most of the time the experience is positive.

It doesn't have to be a huge gesture. I feel that even a nod communicates... something. Solidarity? Trust? Maybe its just about acknowledging all of the strange and different experiences that have brought our paths together. Or maybe its just about sharing a moment. I'll even entertain the thought that all of us are one and the same organism, each of us a sensory pod contributing to the ever-blooming collective consciousness. That acknowledging others is about acknowledging myself in a way.

Through trying to make eye contact, I've noticed that many people prefer to feign ignorance of my passing. And truthfully, I still have many moments where I treat our shared experiences as though they were limitless and unremarkable. Indeed, there is something about the society in which I grew up that seems to promote a sense of "life as entitlement". So many of us are surrounded by such wonderful people and curious opportunities. It's a shame that so many have also grown so accustomed to having these gifts that nothing at all seems to sparkle.

Life does not seem as dull here. Certainly not as thankless.

It's customary in Ghana to greet everyone you pass. In fact, it's considered bad form to conduct business of any sort, without first engaging in some preliminary small-talk. If society may be considered to be a fabric, then surely its stitches are the individual interactions we have with one another. I've learned to appreciate just how supportive the practice of greeting strangers can be for society.

Our daily interactions matter. Whether we choose to ignore this fact or not, well that's where we have a choice.

Today I've been imagining what conflict resolution would look like if both parties were cordial before duking out their defenses?

How far do the effects of kindness and respect really travel?


I really enjoy these SoulPancake projects. Such a nice reminder of the hidden awesome found in everything with a little effort. There's some good things happening in the world. You're probably part of them.

And for that, I nod in your general direction.

Television

"Watching television is like taking

black spray paint to your third eye."

- Bill Hicks

I love a good television program. But not all the time.

And certainly, I visioned a lot more telly when I was younger. But I could only vegetate when I got home from school. Held fast to two hours per night, with the bonus of movies on weekend nights. Even then it was a lot.

But now, is generations of technology from then. I cannot believe the sheer amount of television watching that happens on laptops at school. Social networking is barely a blip on the radar. Seasons of television are consumed as though in a vacuum. Students frequently plug-in on their breaks and I can't help but wonder what its like in other schools? In a sense I feel like I'm waking up to just how much we consume popular media.

I feel like I didn't have as many things to distract me as a student. At least media consumption wasn't AS accessible. I feel fortunate having grown up during an age without quite as much technological temptation. 

As educators we can learn a lot from the choices students make. How much of their incessant television watching should be blamed on the system in which we operate? Beyond their unfortunate consumptive habits the students are often quite brilliant, and always friendly and polite.

Many will know that I'm as much fascinated with the advancement of technology and understanding as the as the next guy. I believe we, as a human organism, are discovering just how magical we are with every waking moment. The future knows possibilities about which we can't even dream.

But if we are to endorse technology and its possibilities, then we must aspire to give students' an education at least as interesting as their distractions of choice. We need to create a diversity of opportunities and experiences which stir their emotions and ignite their interests. Simple sounding prescription. No other instructions on the bottle.

Sometimes I feel like I'm bending over backwards trying to rouse their interest in... well, anything. It's a defeating feeling for sure, and I imagine teachers of all subjects understand the sensation of being at the end of your creative potential.

Fortunately, it only takes one learning-loving student to rejuvenate my own passion for education.

This week I invited students to reflect on their midterm performance. I invited them to share their most valuable “learnings”.

One student wrote the following:

“Biology is a course I've always liked and had a passion for.” She describes her desire to study medicine, and her fascination with the development of life.

“The most important thing I've learnt so far is that hard work actually pays off... now I do [my assignments] days before its time to submit and do research whenever I need further explanation.”

My heart warmed from her love for learning. Her enthusiasm is contagious.

At the end of the day, after closing up the classroom, I passed this same student/aspiring physician on the stairwell.

She was sitting at the side, notebook on her lap, scribbling thirstily at the homework I'd only assigned ten-minutes ago. She couldn't wait to get home to start in on the homework. I pinch myself. 

What's more incredible is that her learning is the result of her own passion for the subject. It is her OWN. Not what I, as a teacher she must listen to, have been imparting. She supplements her learning regularly, and wants to discover more. A delight to teach and learn from.

Through my various experiences in education, I keep arriving at the same conclusion: there's nothing more challenging than getting an inert student to care. It's a lot easier when the goal is to help her find something about which she already cares.

When we enjoy what we're doing, when we pursue our cares and curiosities, we tap into a sense of willingness.

How can we remodel our teaching methods to focus on helping students develop the willingness to learn in an age of exponential technology?

How can we help students care enough about something that they genuinely enjoy pursuing? Something worth pursuing more than screen-gazing? How can we make education ever-relevant for individual students in our rapidly evolving society?

Then again, perhaps it's not the education paradigm that needs shifting. Maybe its just be the students, the generation.

But I find this latter option improbable. After all, the students are often brilliant.

Found Treasures

"I'm an adventurer, looking for treasure." 

- Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

After the physics class cleared out for lunch today, I jumped into my usual routine of tidying up the classroom. The desks and chairs are usually scattered after my busiest class.

Sometimes, while tidying, I find little treasures. Usually they come in the form of shreds of confetti, or larger pieces of paper which serve as excellent scrap writing surfaces. I also sometimes find pencil shavings, and empty water bottles. But today, well, today was a special day indeed.

While sweeping up small squares of ripped paper, I spotted the sheen of sunlight glancing off of polished plastic. Nestled tightly in the cramped quarters between the floor, the foot of the desk, and the wall I saw a perfectly preserved pen, complete with a shiny cap and all!

This may sound like mild fun to some of you, but I assure you the value of such a find is far from trivial. Just as the youngster who discovers his dreams in the bottom of the Cracker Jack box, I felt a rush of joy course through my limbs, and goosebumps prickled down my spine. I picked it up, glanced around half-expecting to see it's owner returning to claim it as though it were a lost puppy. When I took the cap off and put the ball-point to a sticky note, the ink flowed flawlessly. Perfectly tamed black ink seemed to hover, glimmering, over the waiting page, eventually succumbing to gravity, sinking into dry, smudge-free permanence.

I've been looking for a black pen for weeks now. I lost my last one to a yearning student a few weeks ago, and have been settling for the use of blunt ended pencils or the bleeding sting of red ink in my agenda, and for my notes. The process of jotting ideas has indeed become somehow painful in the void of unclear writing utensils.

Some of you may be asking yourselves why I didn't simply buy a pen. Heck, you may be asking yourselves why I didn't buy several pens, in some sort of combo pack.

And truthfully, I can't give you a good answer. I suppose I hadn't really realized just how important having a new pen would mean to me. I've spent so much time focusing on other things, that I failed to notice what a hindrance my inklessness had been to my productivity. How could I possibly prioritize solving a problem I didn't know I had, until I stumbled across the solution?

This afternoon has been rich with legible lists, and joyful scribbles. I found myself wondering about the kids who often ask for pens in lieu of money at various touristy spots I've been in Ghana. What potential power can be found in the unwritten words contained in ink-filled tubules the world over? What treasures lie right under our noses?

Fears

"How blessed are some people, whose lives have no fears, no dreads; to whom sleep is a blessing that comes nightly, and brings nothing but sweet dreams."

- Bram Stoker

A few weeks ago I was enjoying one of my better sleeps of the past few months. Sweat-free and dream-laden. I don't remember exactly what I was dreaming about, but I'm sure an observer would have noticed a subtle smile on my face.

It's a bit of a creepy picture, to imagine being watched while you sleep. And yet, while I was sleeping, I somehow sensed it. It's the strangest feeling, sensing another's gaze, and I think many of us can relate to it. Like human beings can communicate telepathically in some way.

Anyway, I tried to ignore my sensations of an onlooker, but soon felt an itch on my cheek. And I realized what exactly my intruder was.

I swatted at what I believed to be a mosquito buzzing around my face, and felt the rigid, twitching body of an enormous cockroach who was napping on my cheek. We both woke up faster than a lightning strike as I launched him like a shot putter.

Unfortunately (fortunately), I sleep with a mosquito net around my bed which prevented me from putting a lot of distance between myself and the bug. I could see the silhouette of my exoskeletal bunkmate dangling from the mesh. I had thrown him right into a soft landing pad, and he was now scurrying up to the highest point of my anti-malarial fortress.

I'd never realized how much I don't like the thought of scurrying until that moment. And yet, I couldn't help myself as I scurried from under the net to the floor. I jerked upright in the darkness, as though someone had poured cold water down my back, and jumped on the light switch.

Squinting in the brightness, I assessed the situation. There was a cockroach. It had tapdanced on my face, and after we both had a minor panic attack, it was now trying to hide in the folds at the top of the mosquito net.

I must've stood frozen for ten minutes, trying to negotiate a way back to bed. I don't like killing things in general, but then again I'd never had a fear of cockroaches until I almost inhaled one.

I have not experienced the immense irrationality of fear in quite some time. My heart beat too quickly for my thoughts, and I couldn't sort out my next action. I was gripped in a logic-less state, and could do nothing but watch the bug through the mesh.

In the end it wasn't pretty. I decided that I couldn't touch the cockroach again, that would be too icky. I considered shaking him out onto the floor, but as logic wafted back through my foggy consciousness it occurred to me that he might make his way back up to my face once the lights were off. Nothing makes you more self-interested than fear.

I ended up killing the cockroach. Well, flushing. I carefully removed the whole mosquito net from the ceiling, carried it at arms length to the bathroom, and forced the insect invader into the toilet by swatting at the net like a cat pawing a creepy new toy. He scurried desperately one final time as he hit the porcelain, but I was too quick and I lurched the lever down, surely rushing him to a stinky, sewagey death.

At least, I think he died.

I went to bed wondering if the rumours about cockroaches' impossible abilities to survive were true. What if cockroaches could swim? What if he came back with friends?

I didn't sleep a wink after that.

I don't have many fears, and I've since calmed down, and laughed at the ridiculousness of my close encounter with a cockroach. But I'm amazed how easily I killed him that night. Fear can make people do incredible things. I'm not even sure what it was about that situation that scared me so. Was it that I was startled? Was it because I was alone with the cockroach? What was I afraid he would do?

In what other ways is power motivated so irrationally, than by our fears?

Beliefs

"We are born believing.

A man bears beliefs as a tree bears apples." 

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Magic has an incredible attention-arresting capacity. In addition to challenging models of reality and inspiring a greater sense of awareness in its observers, magic is an excellent classroom engagement tool. So it is that the students of CIC are exposed to "Mr. Love's experiments in possibilities" (magic tricks) on an almost daily basis. 

A few weeks ago I was approached by a student, poster in hand. She was putting signs up all over the school, broadcasting the upcoming variety show hosted by the students' council. I surveyed the advertisement, reading the different types of entertainment they were expecting. "SONG" was printed prettily at the top left in some sort of glitter glue. Each letter in "DANCE" at the top right of the card was a different colour. And then I saw it. Lurking at the bottom of the page, as unexpected and impossible as it's block-lettered name would suggest: "MAGIC".

"Oh yah," said the student, who must have read my stunned expression, "would you mind performing a bit of magic for the show? You're already on the poster!" She gestured with her eyes to the block-letters, and smiled as sweetly as she could in my direction. 

Thus it came to pass that I magished a small 20-minute set for the students, staff and guests of CIC at the school's first annual variety show on Friday of last week. 

Noting the uniqueness of this inaugural occasion, I wanted to prepare something special, and dug deep into an arsenal of ideas I thought I had left in Canada for the year. Most of the magic I have performed here in Ghana has been PG at best. Light-humoured, puzzling, enjoyable but not necessarily momentous. 

I thought the variety show might afford me the opportunity to practice something more intense. 

I opted to try a new thought-reading technique, and invited an audience member to concentrate on a secret three-digit number. I asked him to keep his eyes closed while concentrating on the number, so that he could focus more clearly on his thoughts. 

Members of the audience successfully guessed the first two numbers, and I still have no idea how it happened. I wanted to learn the final digit in a more direct manner, which the following video captures. I apologize for the blurriness of the video, but invite you to notice the reaction. 

Admittedly I was really pleased with the success, which rendered me all the more stunned when the audience remained completely silent after their initial gasps. No hoots, no hollers, no muffled chatter. Although I couldn't see for the lights in my eyes, I imagined their expressions to be quite stoic. To my mind, they might have been yawning. 

I took my final bow to a few polite claps, and walked off the stage as confidently as I could while self-destructive feelings of inefficacy gurgled up inside me. I knew that the audience was small, but I couldn't help but feel that they had been more responsive to the other acts. 

As the night wore on, I received almost no eye contact from anyone in attendance. I began to feel as though I had inadvertently said or done something offensive. I retraced my time on the stage in my mind through the lens of self-doubt. And then I tapped into the stream of guilt and disappointment that runs perpetually in the corner of my consciousness, though I sometimes forget about it. 

All of this from a magic show! The mind is a very tricky thing. 

At the intermission, after I'd been stewing in psychosocial turmoil for about twenty minutes, I was approached by a man I didn't recognize. He introduced himself as the uncle of one of our students, and shook my hand. I welcomed his kindness from an audience who, I was now convinced, had despised me. 

After a few sentences about the weather, his eyes looked at me more directly. 

"How did you see that boy's thought?"

"Well, it's not an easy explanation," a well-rehearsed response. "I have been studying the mind for many years, and learned a lot of confusing, fascinating stuff."

"I used to practice magic," the uncle confessed. "I was taught by my Uncle, who traveled the world performing." 

I conceded my awe at this, and he probed further.

"Have you ever moved things with your mind?" 

I nodded, though hesitantly as I noticed the increasing sternness of his expression. 

"Could you tell me who was on the other side of that gate?" he gestured over my shoulder. 

I looked and smiled back at him. "No, I don't think I could do that." 

"I could!" he jumped. "I had incredible powers, but I realized that it was too tempting, and I found the right path."

I paused fully, sensing the direction of his inquisition. 

"So what church do you go to?" he asked. My blood pressure surged. 

In case you don't know, I'm not a regular church-goer. In fact, I don't consider myself a part of any religious community.  At the same time, I see myself belonging to every religious community in a sense. I would love to talk more about the specifics of my spiritual views and religious practices, but it's a topic too dynamic for this blog. 

Suffice it to say that my beliefs, although parallel in many ways to the beliefs of many I've met here, are succinctly and noticeably different here in Ghana. Though I try not to threaten others with my ideology, I can't help but feel like sometimes my perspective is perceived as invasive. I avoid discussing religion as much as possible (not just here), simply because I don't want to draw imaginary lines with people.

However, it is a difficult topic to avoid altogether when certain Christian faiths and practices are assumed in my corner of the world. It seems like one in three billboards beckon passersby to a faith healing conference, or guided prayer session. Seven out of ten cars are decorated with religious symbols or verses from the bible. In my school I have been approached by at least half of my students with questions about the nature of my religious beliefs. 

And please don't misunderstand me. I have absolutely no complaints about these things. I am always willing to dialogue, and listen, and above all I aim to respect others' beliefs. As long as I don't feel threatened myself, I see no reason we can't try to dive into one another's deepest ideas.

I mean only to paint a picture of the depth and similarity of belief in this part of the world. Evil spirits are powerful forces here, as evidenced by the "witch camps" which exist, astonishingly, in the North. Indeed, many people believe that magic is can be a force of either good OR evil. 

The man who approached  me that night believed that my performance was supernatural, and warned me against my practice. As he regaled me with his religious discoveries to lure me from the evils I would certainly confront on my current path. I heard the voice of a friend in the back of my mind, who warned me about practicing magic here in Ghana. 

"I choose the right path in Jesus Christ" he said seriously, invitingly. "I see something in you, and I hope you don't go the wrong way."

"I have no idea where my path is leading," I admitted. "Maybe Jesus will meet me yet."

It occurred to me that perhaps there were others in the audience who felt that my demonstration was anti-religious, or tainted with evil. Perhaps this is why they weren't wildly enthusiastic after the show. Perhaps this is why I felt they were avoiding my eyes. My thoughts ran away from me, and I allowed myself to feel more marginalized, more different, more excluded than I've ever felt in my life. 

Careful folks, the mind is a powerful thing. I realized that much this emotional trauma was self-inflicted on Monday, as things grew back to normal. Students eventually warmed up and approached me, full of high fives and curiosity about the show. 

What they felt on Friday night I'll never know. Whatever it was, I've been reminded of power of belief, and its entanglement with reality. We have an incredible necessity to make sense of the world, and our self-reinforcing interpretations are the building blocks of our identities, our families, and our communities. 

I was also reminded that the tension that arises from differences in interpretation can feel threatening. And that these differences in interpretation are the cause for many conflicts. It's fascinating just how physical a belief can feel. And how unsettling it can be to have one pulled out from beneath you. 

At what level can all of us, no matter what our interpretations, find agreement with one another?

What beliefs do ALL of us share?

Change from Within

A few years ago I was part of a service learning experience to Cuernavaca, Mexico. The theme of the journey was Change from Within, meant to draw the participant's attention to the deeper causes of social injustices. As students we engaged with various volunteer-based projects and asked reflection-generating questions of our experiences. The whole project was designed to raise awareness of our unique impacts on our environments and consequently one another, hopefully inspiring a sense of change from within.

The theme echoes that famous quotation which is often tossed around: "Be the change you wish to see in the world." Gandhi? Craig Kielberger? I'm not sure who to credit, but surely the idea of changing the world by changing oneself is as old as Eastern philosophy. It requires an acknowledgement of the power of one's own perceptions, interpretations, and choices. And it requires a sense of responsibility, and a sense of connectedness to all people and things.

I write about this concept of internally-driven growth because it is some how more relevant to my present journey than I can remember it being in recent times. Though, I DO have a terrible memory.

You may have noticed I haven't written in a while. I have been struggling with many things lately: the frustration of no running water and often spasmatic electricity in the past few months has been exhausting. It's even more frustrating to know that SO many people have SO many fewer comforts than I do, and that I have allowed myself to become encumbered with a sense of self-pity.

I have also struggled with my own thoughts. I have long had this problem, and have often come through rich with epiphany. However, solitude has bought me more time alone with my existence, which means I am digging and diving deeper into my convictions and emotions than ever before. Much of my writing is too self-absorbed, or too drab to publish on this blog, and so I have abstained.

Finally I have struggled in my capacity as an educator. I often feel like I can be a lot better engaging classes, collaborating with co-workers, and helping students grow. My slow-leaking self-efficacy has rendered me tired and lazy, which in turn has make me tiredER and laziER. It's a self-defeating self-fulfilling prophecy. Its definitely been more difficult to switch into a positive positive feedback loop.

I am treading water in my own consciousness, in an often inconvenient and uncomfortable context. With each breath I have been diving deeper and deeper. Sometimes I'm a little freaked out by the insecurities I discover, but all the while I trust that I'm growing stronger. "That which does not kill me..." Nietszche? Kanye?

And though it sounds dramatic these challenges, and their unexpectedness, are exactly what I hoped to experience this year. Relentless challenges on the outside prompt change from within.

Thank you for reading.

Soiling Certainty

"All generalizations are false, including this one."

- Mark Twain

There's a potentially dangerous beast lurking among us. It often disguises itself as Fact, and quite easily slips past even the most astute and defensive observer. In fact, this monster is so subversive it's currently spawning in every household, inflicting every parent, and consequently every child the world over.

Today I came face to face with this seething, certainty-breeding giant, witnessing firsthand its potential for harm. To make matters worse, I happen to know that it dwells deep in all of our minds. It's even right here, in my writing, in the last sentence. It can't be escaped. That's right, I'm talking about Generalization.

My first period class is called Current Topics in Science. The focus of the course is to arrive at a better understanding of what constitutes (and does not constitute) science, and how our lives are influenced by science in myriad ways. There are only five students enrolled, but our conversations are some of the most inventive and exploratory in which I've ever participated.

Over the past few days we've been discussing some of the philosophical origins of science. In particular, we've discussed David Hume's famous problem of induction, and Sir Karl Popper's defining criterion of science as lying in its capacity to disprove or falsify hypotheses.

Learning about these philosophies shines a light on the many problematic "all" or "every" statements that surround us. Scientific thinking, in theory, teaches us to be aware of the doubt in many of our conjectures.

Of course, in popular culture we don't often practice scientific thinking, and we are often too certain about what we claim to know. To find examples, one need only peruse the comments on any number of news websites. They are full of the unchecked assumptions and hazardous conviction espoused with Generalization. Instead of pursuing respectful dialogue with a sense of caution and a will to listen and learn, both sides of an issue seem to further cement their respective stance on the issue, becoming more isolated and further polarized. If we're not careful, generalizations can make us make enemy-types of one another.

We could never do away with our capacity to generalize. And I don't think we want to. The philosopher Hegel suggested that generalization underscores the process of thinking. We don't have to kill the beast. We just need to learn about it so that we may tame it, and come to live peacefully with it. Like an exotic pet.

As a homework assignment in out CTS class, I invited students to find several articles in the science news section of the local paper, or on the Internet. Their task was to scrutinize the evidence presented in the popular media, and to think about ways to test the evidence in their own experiments.

As we discussed our findings the conversation flowed wonderfully; the students bought into the process. There were a lot of brilliant ideas being discussed, and a lot of creative thought experiments. Then, and I'm not sure how it came about exactly, but somehow Generalization reared its ugly head, taking one of the students hostage.

One student raised her hand in response to another. I don't even remember the context. But I remember what she said: "All gays are girly sinners. I just try to stay away from anyone I can tell is gay."

Somehow this usually sweet student found her tongue dripping with spite. My heart endured a hairline fracture as she sat back in her chair, proud and sure, grinning from ear to ear. She couldn't have known that her words were so cutting, not with the smile she sported. It was so pure.

I didn't even have time to take up my negotiating post. The others in the class swooped in to collect our hostage from Generalization's tranquilizing grip.

"Hey! You can't say that!" piped one fellow at the side of the class. "You can't generalize people like that. And how is someone else's sexuality going to harm you?" His voice was growing flammable.

"He's right," chimed in another girl, "you're being unfair. And tell me what it means to be 'girly'? Don't you realize you've just made and 'all' statement." My heart smiled softly.

The girl who made the comment looked sheepish. "I guess I did." She mumbled, recoiling a bit from the outbursts of her peers.

For the rest of class we discussed the labels we create for one another, and the judgments we associate with those labels, both positive AND negative. We talked about considering one another as a fellow human being before anything else be it "gay", or "black", or "Christian". I suggested that being able to question the assumptions that anchor our labels is an act of courage, because it means you might have to admit you're wrong. And doing so regularly means getting comfortable with being wrong. I shared my opinion that perhaps this is a small price to pay if it helped us learn to get along.

The girl confessed that she hadn't really thought about what she said before she said it. She also didn't realize that her words could be hurtful.

Just before we finished the discussion, the first boy to challenge her now reached out to her. "You know, I used to think similar thoughts. I think we hear these ideas from our families and friends and society and I just always accepted these ideas until I found out that one of my best friends was gay. At first I freaked out a little, then I realized he's still the same best friend." When class finished they all left together, getting along.

It's a nice break to have the students teach themselves, defending one another from the throes of inductive reasoning.

What would this place look like if more of us recognized the dangers of our generalizations?

Ode to discomfort

“The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.”

                                                                                                         - M. Scott Peck

I'm officially four and a half months into my first year of science teaching, and it's official: I'm lonely.

No, that's not a cry for help or a complaint. I'm not looking for pity. Don't send your virtual hugs. Okay, well, maybe a virtual hug is okay. 

No, I write this declaration publicly as a testament to the sense of self-security I've been strengthening this year. A year ago I did my best to keep vulnerability at bay. An ocean away from me at any given moment. In fact for most of my life I've been enveloped in self-loathing when I showed "weakness". Talk about issues.

It's a bit of a strange topic for a blog that's supposed to pursue wonder, but hear me out. 

I find it amazing. That it's taken me 28 years, and a thousands-of-miles sojourn to be comfortable with myself. And I have my loneliness to thank, for bringing it all together. 

Growth sprouts from a fertile bed of discomfort. As part of my quest to "suck the marrow out of life" I've taken to putting myself in as many uncomfortable situations as I can stomach. Trying new things for the sake of the stretch. Experiencing different ways and embracing challenging ideas in order to keep myself in check and expand my awareness. For all of the pain, and grief, and awkwardness that must be endured there is always something to gain, even if it's just another story for the grandkids. 

This year, I knew that living and teaching on my own in a new culture would give me space and contrast for my ideas. I knew it would be filled with many wonderful experiences, and unique learning opportunities. I also knew it would allow me time to focus on dealing my issues (see above). And in a sense, I knew that it was loneliness that I most wanted to meet.

It's not so much a longing, nagging, anchor on my heartstrings. It's far lighter, more like a concrete pillow, not without a firm place, but causing no real exhaustion. It really only keeps me awake when I try to sleep with it on my mind. 

No I've gotten used to my concrete pillow. I've made friends with loneliness. And irony. 

Of course, there are many people in my life, which means I'm not actually alone. And the conversations I enjoy, and memories that I visit are energizing reminders of the impossibility of total solitude. Through the magic of juxtaposition, loneliness has filled me with sense of gratitude deeper than I ever thought possible. Gratitude in solitude. It makes being lonely a whole lot lighter, and a lot less frequent. And realizing the gifts I already have has been worth all the discomfort. Kinda leaves me with a hankering for more discomfort. Does that count as mild masochism?

I've enjoyed such a rich experience so far, but I'm excited for the opportunities in the months to come. Because I know that the growth from loneliness (grownliness?) has only just begun. 

After all, admitting it is the first step. 

New Beginnings

I'm back! 

After a short holiday and lots of preparatory work, I have begun teaching a second semester here in Ghana. We are a little more than a week into the semester, and I'm finding a decent rhythm. Certainly I feel better adapted than I did at the beginning of September. 

At the beginning of this term I set out to create better classroom infrastructure. I have attempted to make projects more accessible, and my grading more reliable. I have also taken a page out of my old karate teaching days, and incorporated a "message of the week" into my classes. Every Monday I plan to spend about 20 minutes discussing our strengths and weaknesses with respect to various learning habits. I promise its not as patronizing as it seems. 

The students have put up a strong showing to start the semester as well. They seem better prepared for class, and are taking things with a greater degree of purpose. I don't want to speak too soon, but I have great expectations of the learning that will happen in the next two and a half months. 

Yes, things are looking more positive at school. And despite my hiatus from this Internet cloud, I have been writing expertly. Not to be confused with writing with expertise... I mean I've been writing a lot. I'm often unsure of any advice I offer, which is why I don't follow my own very often, but I stand firmly behind the practice of frequent journalling. Writing creatively, and writing crap; writing is categorically cathartic! 

With things looking up on many fronts, it wasn't until today that I felt a surge of pure excitement about this semester. After school the Magic Club of CIC Ghana had its inaugural meeting! That's right. The muggles are converting. There are approximately twenty students (half the school) who are keen to learn the ways of the wizard. I'd love to tell you what we talked about tonight, but it's a secret. 

Okay, it's not really a secret.

We did no tricks today. Instead we practiced real magic. That's right, the magic of our minds. I can hear you groaning from here.

I know that many students come to a magic club meeting with the intent to "be in on the secret". Many students don't have any desire to create magic themselves. Or maybe they do, but they don't believe they are capable of it. Many students believe magic requires dexterity, and boldness, and wit. And it does. But these things do not a magical moment make. 

Before anything else, magic requires belief. The magician must believe in his capacity to master technique and create wonder. The magician who does not believe in the magic he creates will never capture belief from an audience. 

Instead of jumping right into trickery and tomfoolery, our meeting tonight was about building self-belief. Magic is a real, visceral experience, created by and felt within, our minds. I wanted to impress upon the students the very power our beliefs have in creating reality. So we played with pendulums. 

If you've never played with a pendulum before, I encourage you to try this yourself. 

We took about 8 inches of twine, and tied a key at one end. Holding the opposite end of the string, so that the key dangled in front, I invited students to stare at the key until it became totally still. Then I asked them to imagine what it would look like if the key started to swing back and forth, on its own, without any movement of their hands. There was a pause of intense concentration, and then one by one the pendulums began to swing. Eyes widened. 

I suggested that they imagine it swinging to and fro. Then rotating in a circle. Then in the other direction. And sure enough, many of the novice necromancers found their jaws on the floor. It truly is a magical moment, to realize that your thoughts have the power to manipulate the world. 

Of course, this is not new. Our thoughts, of course, DO create the worlds we live in, by shaping our words and actions. But sometimes we lose sight of this fact, and forget about our personal telepathokinetic powers. We forget how much control we have over our thoughts, and we forget how much influence for which our thoughts count. A pendulum offers a beautiful reawakening. 

As we completed this little demonstration, the energy in the room was palpable. And I drank in what I could, and floated in the rest. Tell me that's not real magic!

Yah, it's going to be a great semester. As the pendulums demonstrate, prophecies are often self-fulfilling.

Thanks for reading.